Did you have 'the talk' or are you giving this some space for a while?
AO
AO,
I am just wondering what others would do in theory. My exW has not approached me for the talk. My new W would like me to have the talk with exW if the opportunity presented itself because she believes it is healthiest.
I am still on the fence as to if I would actually do it. If she has thawed, realized what she did wrong and wanted to talk.... I have no clue what I would do...... Would I talk via phone? Would I meet her in person? Would I want her to see what I look like now? (I had a some work done. )
My thing would be if she wanted to have "the talk" she has some agenda.... Something she wants to achieve..... What could THAT be?
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
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