"How long should it take to get over it ? I tried talking to him so many times, so many different ways. Towards the end, I felt like I was talking to a rock. No emotion, no response, no feelings, nothing. I gave up. "
My WAW is still angry more than 5 years after leaving. I suspect that the anger has changed from "he didn't me my needs while we were married" to "he doesn't meet my needs while we are divorced"
I'm not kidding.
My strategy now is to show "No emotion, no response, no feelings, nothing. "
I still get allegedly "misdirected" emails where she is calling me names to someone.
I'd avoid her altogether but we have kids and someone must be mature about it. Water off a ducks back.
