I like your interpretation, GF, that Snow's H is not happy with his choices and am wondering (hoping) that is true in my H's case also. Karen
Well I will thank you on my H's behalf as this was his own interpretation.
I used to think he was so much happier when he wasn't living with us anymore, but according to my H, he wasn't AT ALL. Even lying in bed and waking up next to someone else, he was NOT happy. All he could think about was, "WTH did I do? It should not be like this. I f'ed up my life and my family."
I'm willing to bet that the majority of WASs feel this way to some extent.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell