Hey BFM....I was wondering, my H asked me once the question "you would want to have sex with me while I am seeing OW?" Me and my H have done that....while he was with the OW. I tried to act as if it was Just sex....that is what I told him. It was just sex....he would still do that now if I allowed it....didnt you ever feel he was cake eating? Like maybe he was just using you...or did you deep down think he really cared?

I have noticed in the past that while we were sleeping together behind the OW's back (stupid) we would connect better...we would talk more, were more comfortable opening up...it was as if there were no pressures, then when he would come back and try to work on things, it was different....Did you ever feel that way? Did FW?

How did FW feel about doing this behind the OW's back?

Sorry Treese to hijack.....Just some questions I have....

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
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S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10