Hi nlt, Thanks for posting. Your H seems to be mad and mean to you. The strange thing is my H is nice to me.
He did get a little defensive when he says he can spend his money anyway he wants. And I have seen his facial expression change when I use a firm voice with our dog. It's as if he is reminded and is bitter about the times we argued before the S.
Actually, I am not thinking of giving up, just can't help wondering how to interpret the things he's said. Whether he really means them and is standing by his original decision to end the M. It's confusing because if he really wants out, why hasn't he filed?
I know how you fel about missing your best friend. Your situation sounds more like MLC than mine, I think.
