Oh, I think it is best too. Let your H know about the letter and that you contacted OM but only to firmly state that you are with your H and that you want your M to work. No one will ever be mad at you for working on your marriage.
If your H wants to read the letter let him but I suggest if he doesn't or after he has destroy it. You do not want it laying around at all.
I am so proud of you. (((((hugs)))))
kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory