MaMa, I don't think he is taping the conversations because he truly sounds like an arse on the phone. I mean I don't think he would bring up that I owed him a sexual favor from over 10 years ago if he was recording! LOL
I brought a recorder to tape our conversations but for some reason it never picks up the other person's voice. But I do save and record all the VM's and answering machine messages he has left me.