I get in these bizarre sitch's - We have always gotten a card together, I don't want to make my D's birthday to look like a competition to D21 or WAW. What I decided to do is to next week just give her a card to let her know how special she is - give it to her on her own and nobody needs to know about it except for the two of us. I have done that before, so that is not out of the ordinary.
Looking forward to a nice night out with family and her a couple of her friends. She wants Mexican food so she can order a margarita - daddy's little girl
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
My oldest child -- my daughter -- turned 21 last month. My baby, all grown up! While it makes me sad sometimes to think about just how FAST it's all happened, I am also incredibly blessed to have a new, different, more adult-to-adult relationship with her that I wouldn't trade for anything.
I get in these bizarre sitch's - We have always gotten a card together, I don't want to make my D's birthday to look like a competition to D21 or WAW. What I decided to do is to next week just give her a card to let her know how special she is - give it to her on her own and nobody needs to know about it except for the two of us. I have done that before, so that is not out of the ordinary.
Looking forward to a nice night out with family and her a couple of her friends. She wants Mexican food so she can order a margarita - daddy's little girl
CBK
CBK-see easy solution..some of these things that come up it's like you're panicking instead of thinking them through. What a great solution you came up with. I'm proud of you.
Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..
I'm trying to lock this Biooootch thread up..The title is depressing me..you ain't drowning no more old buddy..you keep up what your doing.
Drink a rita' for me
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 05/13/0809:04 PM.
Have a great time with your daughter. Keep taking care of yourself.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
While it makes me sad sometimes to think about just how FAST it's all happened, I am also incredibly blessed to have a new, different, more adult-to-adult relationship with her that I wouldn't trade for anything.