I know how it feels when a date is "looming" out there, but act as if this is all going to work out ok. It sounds as if you are consumed with the e-mail bit, you need to let it go. focus on doing something positive. Have you worked on things that you want to improve about you for you? GAL. Your H will notice plus it will give you amuch better outlook. I know he hasn't admitted A yet, so alot of what is writing to OW might just be to pacify her. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory