For the guy with kids and WW II

[hopeful4her]

Basically, yes.

When I go shopping, I would usually buy her her favorite candy bar. Haven't done that in a while. Her complaining of neck ache, and me finding the Theragesic for her. While I am making S and my lunches, asking her if she wants me to make her a lunch. If I am going to watch a movie, asking her if she wants to join me. Making weekend plans for family and assuming she will be included. I don't mean expecting her to join and being upset if she doesn't. Preparing my coffee in the morning and making hers also.

I don't call her, unless I have to. I only let her call me. Do I wait for her call, yes. When she does call, I only take her cues and engage her after I see she wants to talk. At home, if I didn't ask on the phone, I ask how her day went and let her lead the conversation.

In nearly two months, I have sent her two non-family related texts. One was the invite to lunch that I should not have sent. The other was the funny one last Friday. In same time, I have sent her only one email. That was yesterday. I know that I have mentioned that I am starting to touch a little more when I talk to her. Just slight touches.

It just doesn't FEEL like I'm pursuing, but to everyone else here, it is.

Am I just blind or stupid?

BTW, just got another reply emial from the one I sent her yesterday:

Good Afternoon,

You are probably saying wow, she's actually replying back. Yeap, Had a
few minutes and I am thinking of Roast Beef today, I am going to cook it
when I get home today so we can eat it tomorrow.

Do you still need the VIN number? Here it is anyways *****************
1998 ISUZU RODEO S/LS

HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GREAT DAY, ITS BEEN KIND OF BUSY TODAY.

SEE YOU LATER


And "B" just called me on my cell and at work. Ignored both.

High road. High road. No more complications.