Angelica hit the nail on the head, Mishka. It is not loving to get your mom to have some self-sufficiency by utilizing services you already pay for! Medicare is paid by you and me and others to help in these situations. It is not charity in this case. And there is nothing wrong with using charity if one needs it.
Remember to teach others to fish so they can feed themselves. Don't do all the fishing for them or they become to reliant on you and you can't focus on what God wants you to.
I am glad Angelica had the courage to say something
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God