I'm feeling sad and powerful today. I posted this on my myspace page earlier:
"So I'm free. My husband said our marriage was over, that there's no chance. It was the worst Mother's Day ever, but perhaps in the end he gave me a gift after all.
I know that I deserve to be happy. I deserve someone who is committed to me and my family. My bad in thinking that H was that person. He's been telling me since July he wasn't and I just didn't listen. I guess that I thought deep down he understood what commitment was all about, but in the end I was wrong. I deserve someone who is willing to fight the good fight, to not let negatives prevail and who can ultimately do the right thing. Well, you know what? I have that person. That person is me.
The rest of my life starts now."
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09