I know I just wrote that I am going to keep doing the same, but with variation. What I mean is that I am going to take Sandi's advise and not be an ass kisser anymore among other things.

I have just seen such a difference in our R, that it is hard to ignore right now. Gonna pull back now that I see a little more from her.

Do I even stop asking if she wants lunch made? I know that sounds like a stupid question.

Again, these past couple of weeks, she is talking more, sharing more and giving more. Are they baby steps in the right direction?

This morning, I was sitting on the sofa passing time, dozing off before I leave for work. My eyes are closed and she walks by and scratches my head and tells me she is leaving. Aside from last night's craziness, first unitiated physical contact from her, besides holding hands for grace at dinner time, for some time.

At least while we are awake.

Is it still pursuing if it is helping the R? Or am I just in a fog like her? Grasping at things that aren't there.

Sandi? Puppy? Keep helping me.

Last edited by hopeful4her; 05/13/08 07:53 PM.
Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."