This is an NEVERENDING story. No one from that side showed. The case has been dismissed.
I really dont know what to do. What do you do with a person that seemingly does not want to be married and seemingly does not want to be divorced ?
What do I do now?
Well, crap, sweetie, it is so unnecessary for you to get all emotionally prepared, and then have this happen.
But, incidents like this just prove to me that there is a difference between a person in MLC seeking a D, and a "regular" person who has just had enough and gets Dd, no fuss, no muss.
He is crazy, absent, on another planet, whatever. You can't really do anything, IMO, except exactly what you've been doing. Taking careful, well thought-out steps towards living your own life the way you want to, independent of what he is doing.
Of course it really is your choice as to whether at this point, for your health and happiness, you want to file, or to just sit still and let him twist in the wind some more. Either way, you got support here!
