i'm clueless....

[blindsided1]

Hi Ann,
I'm sorry you are feeling a bit gloomy about your M. You are almost ready to have this new baby. Put everything else out of your mind and just try and relax for the next week and a half. You have no idea where you will be (feelings-wise) after the baby is born. You are a pretty smart, level-headed woman that I have seen from the short time I've known you on this board. You'll do what is best for you and the family, whatever that may be. Am I pro-marriage? Definitely. But, only you know what is right for your sitch. You have a lot of fight in you. How much GAL do you do? I know it's hard being prego and all. But, do you have girlfriends you go out with? Or people to laugh with? Sounds like you need some YOU time. If H and M aren't what is making you happy right now, find something that does. I see you doing a lot for you H, maybe it's time to do for YOU occassionally. Make your happiness.

Wow, it would be great if I could take my own advice. Better at dishing it out than actually taking it.