I don't know what to think of this

[brandnewday]

Dar,
as usual your response to me was mind boggling, but I didn't expect anything less.

I am so terribly sorry that the mentioning of my breast augmentation and discussions of Brazilian waxing offended you, to the point that you had to equate it with your postings on outrageous things.

Just so you know, for many years during my Marriage my Husband had asked me to try getting a BW and I flatly refused.

One of the changes I made about myself was to actually try to have an open mind to some of the things he suggested during the Marriage.

Perhaps if I had listened to the many things he had asked of me over the years alot of the bad things that happened could have been avoided.

How many things did your Husband ask you to change about yourself or to try that you refused to do?

As for the Breast Augmentation, I had that done for myself, as I had nursed all 8 of my children and was very self conscious as to the condition of my body.

It was one of the best things I have ever done for myself and for my Husband, and I recommend it to everyone.

And to throw H in the mix. Our marriage had many sh*tty things happen in it, starting with our babies dying 9 days after getting married. H AND MYSELF have both dealt with alot in our marriage and the black cloud that seems to follow.

And what does that have to do with anything?
The black cloud of doom that you are talking about is created by you. So you had bad things happen to you, all the more you should show grace and love and kindness to others.

You seem to want this one upmanship.....

You have mentioned that you have been separated longer then anyone else here on this forum. Check the dates of the other posters here.

You have mentioned that your babies died, although tragic, many here have had the same misfortune, including myself. I also have lost 4 babies and that also affected my Marriage.

I am so done with trying to figure you out, and to try and understand you and to sympathize with you.

I don't have any bad feelings towards you Dar, I am just so tired of the saying the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.

And nothing ever changes......