Thanks Michelle for those words of wisdom. I know that you are right. This is the best thing for both of us. H has never experienced independance. He went from living with him parents to living with me. I however went away to a 4 year university and also lived alone in an apartment for 2 years before I even met my H. So I think in the big picture of things, this is best for him and for me. It is just hard to accept that because it is so painful.

I just checked my cell phone and I had one TM. It was from H and it just said "Hi Sara." That put a small smile on my face because at least he thought about me.

About his glasses...he recently got contacts. So I guess he doesn't seriously need the glasses. The only pair he had left are his spare ones because when we were watching that movie the other Saturday his regular glasses broke (I noticed that when he is around me, he wears his glasses and not the contacts). I just thought that he would need his glasses whenever he takes out the contacts. But I don't know... I am sure he is figuring something out. Who knows, maybe he got the other pair fixed.

I didn't mention this, but yesterday I laughed so hard. The first time I have really laughed in 4 months. A bird pooped in one of my co-teacher's hair! HAHAHA!! My gosh it was funny. It felt good to laugh...too bad about my co-teacher, but it sure did feel good to finally laugh.

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08