Thanks Sunny and Karen --

So y'all think that the best thing to do is just let slide that latest business about what H "knows" matters to me...

I can see the value in this; however it really bothers me that my silence will lead H to feel validated on this absolutely absurd idea...although my experience has been that if/when I have protested what he 'knows', he discounts my words...

I just wonder about the possibility of a 180 in regards to the way I respond to his litany of woes...I have always been the compliant one in this R, the one who really never blows up; just stuffs it all down inside, or every so often would come off as pathetic trying to defend myself against H's allegations (almost entirely in the long pre-DB years).

Of course, we are also getting so close to several big events... S18s graduation from highschool (my family's coming...) and then the following week, our big trip to Europe...

Maybe more reason to lay low for the time being...

What do y'all think???


Me: 49
H: 49
M:21,T: 24
S18, S12
Bomb #1, 5/02; Bomb #2, 12/06; now sleeping elsewhere

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