I was thinking a little more today and a big thing is not to appear needy (the acting as if thing).
Neediness is NOT an attractive feature in anyone. FW felt very trapped by my neediness and found it very attractive once I stopped and started living life for myself.
Let us know how it goes.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
