Just Honest..

[kikifree]

Hey Upside,

Your story had me an awe. your poor H , seems to have gone through hell.

Being informed helps you have a different perspective.

As for h texting me. i didn't find that good or bad. Just was like hmm.


You seem to be doing well. it can be a rollercoaster on our emotions somtimes.

You, too, have a blessed day!!!

[Lissie]

I am glad you received a text for mother's day.

Who knows what it means, but that was nice to get that.

Hope you are having a great day lovey.

[kikifree]

Thank you. Lissie. It was a great Mother's Day.

My sis , mom and D7 made me feel special.

exactly, who knows anymore. Whatever.

so Javi is going coocoo for coco puffs. oh well..he will get over it.


How are YOU doing?

H picked up d7 from school. I try to ignore them driving away but he has hersay bye.

He has some elvis thing going on wit hhis hair now. long in the front ,shaved on the bottom. weird!

Not attractive but his little teeny bopper may like it...oh well.

i am very peaceful right now.

[kikifree]

I'm a little upset right now.

D7 came home sad last night.

She wouldn'ttalk to me.

h walked to the door withher and gave me pics.

i texted h if something had happened..he said no everything went great.

He said she was as complex as her mother.

Cute.

So this morning, she tells me that daddy said he loves me but I am mean to him.

D7 said i know you are not mean to him.

She said daddy said we will be divorced soon.

then my d asked me if we can get back together after we are divorced.

She asked daddy why he was with OW.

i'm not too happy these things are brought up. I have no control in though.

[Jeanette1120]

Out of the mouthes of babes

Women are not that complex, if men would pay more attention it wouldn't be so damn difficult!

then my d asked me if we can get back together after we are divorced.

She asked daddy why he was with OW.

AND?

Did he answer THOSE questions?

Your daughter will be ok Kiki.....she has a wonderful mother.

I personally think it is ok for her to ask him these questions, it might just make him "THINK" about things in his life.

He doesn't have to lie to her.....she knows your not mean. It will only show her how "childish" her father is.

Hmph!

Hug that smart little girl you've got!!

[kikifree]

Thanks Ms. Jeanette.

It made me upset. I HAVE control over my emotions but it bugs me.

I will do something fun with D7 today after school.

I told D7 i loved daddy and did not want the divorce. She already knew that.

I wish he wouldnt involve her. But ....

I do not know if he answered her.

How are things in your neck of the woods?

[angelica]

Kikifree - it is called projection! Your h is being mean to you, and he knows it. He is complex and he knows it.

He is so selfish and immature right now that he drags your 7 year old daughter into it. And like Jeanette, I would love to know what your h answered about OW. But you cannot ask, that would be unfair to your daughter. It really sucks having to be the adult all the time!

The comment about divorce to your daughter was so inappropriate that it is hard to believe he made it, except that these crezy people have lost all sense and decency!

Hugs A

[Jeanette1120]

How are things in your neck of the woods?

Exactly the friggen same.

I hate this.

The waiting is terminal.

[kikifree]

Hi angelica, I agree. he shuoldnt be talking to her about anything.

We have another court date June 24th. Funny, H left 3 years ago on June 26th.

i sometimes wonder why God just doesn't let me move on.

jeanette, ther has to be an end!!!!

[cat03]

hey kiki, I hear you, our little ones don't really know what D means, even my s9 asked me last night "so are we still going camping together (meaning all 4 of us", I really thought he understood when we told him *sigh*.
What an @rse, to tell her you were being mean, thank heavens she has a great mom who doesn't spew venom back.