Okay, don't know what I should do here... today's is daughters 21 bday - I asked W if she got a card for her, she says she got a funny one and a mom one... I texted her back asking if I should get a dad one? Am I reading too much into this? We have always given her a card from the two of us. I am so confused about stuff like this. She just texted back and said it doesn't matter, the first one can be from both of us... Stuff like this will drive me crazy. I guess I have to treat this like water of a ducks back... groan.
CBK
CBK, In MHO you are reading to much into the little things. My W and I still just get one card and sign it together. We are not D'd yet. You are over thinking this small stuff.
Stuff like this will drive YOU crazy only if YOU let it.
You could have also just got a card from you to your D and not worried about what your W did. Why worry about what your W is doing for your D's B-day..the more cards the better I say.
How special would that be..your D getting a 21st B-day card just from you telling her what a great D she is?? I'll tell ya--she will remember and treasure it forever.
