Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

Some good news there, Snow! Hopefully he gets hired, and this becomes a turning point for the better.

I hope so too GF, but I tell you, I read your sitch and I see so many similarities between you and I and between our H's and I am beginning to question why I want him to come home.

He is there today watching D and complaining, first it is that that I do everything half assed because there was some jam on the outside of the jam jar(probably a month old since he was there, can't remember the last time I had jam), then it was that there were crumbs on the floor in our bedroom (where d sits to watch tv), I am not even trying to keep up the house...

Then when he went to take D to school her homework had been put back in the bag with a note on it to do the back of the page(the previous 2 weeks it was only the front). I had not even gone in her bag last night because homework comes home on Wed. I had her get out her book they sent home to read so I didn't notice. To that I got a text that said "she didn't finish her homework are you done or what because this is an f'n joke"

He obviously is in a bad mood today so it must be my fault. I want to rip a strip off him about it, but I called when i got back from my lunch and asked,"What is with you today, you seem to be going around looking for anything I might be doing wrong" He was then nice on the phone, I think he thinks he can say anything he wants by text.

My problem is if I choose not to bite my tongue I have a hard time staying in the moment, my response would be more like I am sorry the house isn't clean enough given that you walked out on your daughter and I, I have more things to worry about. So then I say nothing.

So teh he changes the subject were you out playing catch, how many times did you play this week?