Don't you sense the intensity increasing in his pursuit of bringing you grief?
I agree that he senses the end of this mess is near and that decisions are going to be made that he is not happy with. I also believe that he is in the process of doing anything he can do discredit you from the standpoint of wanting the kids to see their Dad.
This is a delicate matter. You might express to your lawyer that you fear he is attempting to do this to you. It's a shame to think that your own lawyer could not offer more advice.
I thought you agreed upon a visitation schedule at your previous meeting?
He is trying to run you into the ground emotionally and physically. If you are defeated and an emotional basket case, he will have a much easier time come the court date.
Your job is to deflect as much of his crap as possible. No phone calls - leave a message. No tm's back and forth. Have your lawyer inform his lawyer that you want no communication with him except for emergencies, as he has been badgering you relentlessly. Time for it to end.
Whatever you do, do your best to maintain a calm and cool disposition. It's the old "don't let them see you sweat" idea.
What an ass he is.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
