Jen, you can keep it friendly and still see a L. Make sure that the L knows you want it to be friendly.
And, seriously, I am overly trusting, but do not assume you can trust your H's sister as your L. That doesn't mean that she's out to get you, but if there's any bending allowed, she will bend her brother's way. That's just human nature.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
