Help Me Act AS IF, Part 5

[mishka422]

LMG - Well, we know that you would "ride it out" but will H for your daughter's sake? Given that your D already knows something isn't right and has already read into that the D is looming would it really be for the best for H to stay there under increasing tension? Questions I know there are no good answers to.

I had suggested the "not getting along" instead of the "don't love each other anymore" because it's less of a lie. You love your H, he just says he doesn't love you. Also, when children hear that you don't love each other anymore they tend to get thoughts of "well, if they don't love each other anymore, then maybe they can stop loving me too." No matter how untrue that is, it is the way they feel.

I'm not sure that there is anything more you could do to try to help your D11. You are taking all the right steps for her already. Is your H makeing any suggestions regarding how to handle this with D11 knowing how anxious she is? Is his only concern getting D without hassle or making sure his kids are ok first?

Hugs to you LMG! (((((LMG)))))