This is how I saw Jack's words on the sword/shield thing:
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I see now that my hurt over the crisis our marriage was in, worsened the problem. Without a doubt, when I was feeling down, it would reverberate through her and she'd despair.
I don't think you (or any of us, for that matter) have lashed out in anger on purpose. However, I do think in retrospect, we did do damage by not being more stoic up front.
Also, I'm not sure what Nutty was doing to you either. She didn't seem to understand your position or past history w/ your sitch. I wasn't digging on how she was ripping on you either. I'm glad you cut her off.
On a different front, any news on your kids? Any news on the courts for you? I hope things are going in the right direction for you.
