MrsH, when you went to court what days were established for visitation? Those are the days JA should see them.
He is up to something...don't text him, call him back or anything else. If his day is wed then assume he will show up on Wed and that is it.
If he just shows up any other day, take the boys get in the car and drive away. He has no idea what the definition of boundaries means.
You need to put him in his place...nicely of course. He sees them on agreed upon days and that is it. Let him drive out of his way on a non-visitation day...guess he can afford the 4.00 gallon of wasted gas!
Really, try not to talk to him...go back to giving the boys the phone the minute you hear his voice.
He is losing control...you can see it/hear it in his messages, he is grasping at straws to continue to bother and have control over you.
You have stopped allowing him to do that and now he doesn't know how to act...Let him spin all by himself...
Sounds like he has a lot of spare time on his hands to cause trouble!
