Mrs. H,

I'm surprised that your L reacted that way. I guess sane people just don't get it. Though I thought your lawyer had enough experience dealing with your H that she would know it's a little power play/mind game with him. He may or may not really want to see the boys, but the main reason for this behavior is that he's trying to control you, IMO, just like he has all along with every aspect of your sitch. Oh, and trying to look to the courts like he's SuperDad who sees his kids everyday, of course!

My H did the same thing with Mother's Day weekend. I posted about it on my own thread. When my friend heard about his latest antics, she actually asked me if he had a brain tumor!!

I think he's got a tumor in his soul. Sounds like yours does, too.

Hang in there, Mrs. H!


Me:40, xH:41
M:19 T:21
D14, S10, D6
IDLYA bomb:12/22/06
OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06
H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07
D papers served 6/07
D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(