I need some advice. The lawyer with whom I'm meeting next Monday told me yesterday to get a snapshot of all our our accounts. I don't think I can get a snapshot of my H's 401k. I've gotten everything else. Do I let this one slip or do I request he get a copy of it? I don't particularly want to upset the apple cart anymore than necessary, but at the same time I don't want to be too trusting and screw myself down the line.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09