Thanks everyone for stopping by.

I can't take this anymore.

JA TM'd me "What days are good for the boys to see me this week?"

I thought maybe he was changing his mind about my birthday tomorrow and was going to allow me to have them.

So I called him up instead of playing TM games.

I asked him "what day works for you the best? I will see if it's good for me."

JA: All the days work for me. I want to see them EVERYDAY this week.

Me: Well that's not possible, you need to choose one.

JA: No I don't. My L said I am entitled to liberal visitation and I can see them as much as I want.

I hung up on him.

I called my L and told her what happened. I told her he is also showing up on his non-visitation days.

She told me to tell him that it's not convienent.

I told her that doesn't work with him.

She said to tell him your busy and he can't see them.

Again, I told her that didn't work. (Does she realize who I am dealing with or what?)

She said "you have to tell him it's not convenient."

Once again I said "Listen, it does not work with him. He will show up anyway."

Finally she said "fine, I will call his L about it."

She seemed like I was bothering her with stupid sh!t but tough. That is what she is there for, to protect me from this crap.

I just can't handle the stress.

Tomorrow is my birthday and I know he is going to pull something on me.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009