You are always so insightful and full of hope. I have seen the anger level continue to grow in my spouse every day. She has mentioned that I amd making her crazy because I am being so nice. She walks around constantly mad, at me, the kids, the pets, work, etc. I brought this up in my Divorce Support Group and no one understood her. Even the women in my group who filed could not connect with her being upset about the process. I believe that it comes down to the fact that anything that happens in this process that does not go exactly according to her plan and she is not in total control of... make her furious.
I have continued to be nice and calm and let her rage. I really think that I am getting this detachment thing because her words/actions are no longer making me react. I am watching the show but not interacting with it. I have made sure that she knows that I think the Divorce is wrong and that I wish to reconcile but I am not pursuing at all.
Hopefully, she will calm down and see the mess she has made for what it is. I am not taking the blame for the issues and complication of the D. I am also standing up to her violating other parts on the S agreement. I have to stand up to her on these issues to get any respect.
