I think you are doing enough 180 for him to see your GALing, and independence, but you are still being attentive to him.
I like that you are not just going along with what ever he wants. It shows that you are an individual with your own wants and needs and that what you want is important to.
It really does look Hopefull!
Have a good day.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
