lwb, I would fully expect more upheavel between now and the end of may. you drew that line in the sand and put a time limit on it, and it is scaring the crap out of him. I fully believe that. if he had been ready for divorce he would have called mediators himself. he says its about the house that he hasn't, but you and I both know that is full of it.
not saying he will or won't push forward with D. not saying the boundary you set was a bad one. just saying its likely freaking him out as much as it is you, except in this one, my dear, you are at the helm. so he has that loss-of-control feeling on top of it.
stay steady...you are an amazing woman. and even though you had to write all that on the forms, you once again showed that nothing was going to stop you from being the strong, wonderful woman you just ARE. he keeps trying to plant bombs and you keep sidestepping them.
you are my hero, my lwb. you are.
(((HUGS)))
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
