I think for me the word of the momnt would be 'gulp'.

Sara is right- you need to know about OW before you will have any inkling here of what's going on. Seems like your H is trying to show you something though.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength