You and Jeff are right. I do need to let my L handle things and I will. I just don't like having to do this, but I'm not the one bringing it on -- she is. Also, as you mentioned, I'll need this as evidence if I'm forced to use it in our settlement.
Jeff, you too are correct, that she'll be embarassing herself and I won't have to. Still, I don't like having to go through it, but it is a legal matter.
I'll be sure to tell my L my goal isn't to humiliate W or to even get nasty and fight. What I want is simply the truth and her explanations on the record as to how she can say these horrible things about me and then act in ways that go against everything she's accusing me of doing.
That is why I have to do this. I have to do it for myself, my name, my reputation, and my D.
