Thank you everyone. H's behavior was unbelievable last night. But even more unbelievable, H apologized today for things he said. This is a first. I thanked him, told him last night was rough on me too, and apologized as well. He was nice when I was telling the girls goodnight. Peace again in limbo land.
The finance thing is working out, but because of H's stubborn behavior, I have to add "Due to marital crisis, my spouse will not disclosure information" to many of the comments section. Lovely. But at least I won't get fired.
I am sticking to my "mediator or atty by the end of May" deal I put out there. I am afraid I can't trust him now to mediate. UGH
