I read your post on yellowrose's thread & my H blamed me too, said I disengaged from our M b/c I didn't go back to work full time (he never told me he wanted me to or I would have), also b/c I hand fed the dog who was sick at the time & that was the only way I could get her to eat. He also said I tried to mold him into something he was not. Also said we were not meant to be together. I do think in your sitch it sounds like MLC, but I'm not sure. I do think my H is going thru it.
I've also been reading some on Charlyne Cares but I didn't get that newsletter.
I'm so glad you posted that. It helps us all.
I haven't been going thru it as long as you but I'm like you sometimes I just feel like giving up & I just miss my best friend so bad & what him back so bad. I can't believe he would give up his life, his job, move to another state with OW!!! It's scary how MLC does, at least I hope that is what it is. All the signs point that way.
