YR, I'm so happy you told us about how your H acted. My H gave me the finger the night he cussed me out. He was an azzzz.... too!! He claimed I had done some underhanded things. I snooped! I did get into his work email (he threatened to send me to jail for that) but that is how I got all the evidence on him. My lawyer said there would be nothing to the part about suing. While H was in the house with me for 5 months after he told me he wanted a D, there were times he would come in & not even speak to me. He was terrible & it is all about him! Some of this scares me that he might not come back because he is so proud & blamed me for everything.
H just quit his job & got another one in the same town & state as OW, she helped him get the job. I saw where she re-did his resume on Sept. 4th, I thought everything was fine with us & then he tells me Sept. 6th he wanted a D.
I'm so glad to hear how your H did & acted b/c it does sound a lot like mine. My first thread is in Newcomers, if you have time to read, it may sound a lot like your sitch.
Again, thank you so much for your imput for all of us going through this. I'm so proud for you!!!!!
