you are SO POPULAR it is so hard for me to keep up with your thread!! 3 pages in one day....??!!!
I am really glad that you have teeth marks on your collar bone!!! H sounds really, really confused. I am not sure it makes sense to push him for any kind of answers right now, including going to retrouvaille. Is there a reason you want to do it in july and not later? the timing seems to soon for me.
WHEN can we get him to go to counseling????!!!!
one thing. when he talks or you talk together about "getting back" to what you used to have. I do not think that is helpful. there is no way to move backwards. We can only move forwards. Both of you have grown, for better and not just for worse. I think it's about creating something new that integrates everything you are right now.
I wish he could see that when he was happiest with you and saddest with you, that he was really happiest and saddest with hiimself.
