I left H a text message today of "Have a great day!" I didn't get anything back from him, so I guess I need to stop leaving these messages and just stop talking to him
Michelle is absolutely correct. You dipped a toe, tried it out, and didn't hear back. I would let up on the messages. I know, its hard. It was one of the hardest things for me to do. Just caught up on you situation tonight. Wow. You have had a rough weekend, but you are showing a strong front. So many time, I heard the garage door at 5am. Heartbreaking. I regret letting it happen for so long. You are doing the right thing.