Finances are sometimes a good way to keep some connection while still forcing some distance and detachment so that they miss you. That will also be a chance to show him how wonderful you are and all the things he is missing out on.

My H and I didn't speak for literally a month one time, a couple weeks here and there was actually common for a few months. Now we are back in regular contact. He did miss me. But if I hadn't forced myself not to contact him for a month, he wouldn't have.

Everything does happen for a reason Sara.

You are strong and wonderful and beautiful. Hang in there. (((Sara)))

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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