Dear Puppy, H4H, & CBK.......oh you guys! I laughed and almost cried. That was sweet--what you said. I know some of my post are more like BOOKS! But, I do care very much. I want you to know that I am just as hard on some of the women as I am the men. It's just that I see with different eyes.....that's all. It tears me apart to see so many marriages in trouble.
H4H, I couldn't help but laugh a little at your response b/c I have had some other men to do the same thing. It's like you guys come together to comfort one another, which is good, but then I come in and let you have it and you do feel like you've been hit up beside the head. However, that is why I throw in a couple of "sweetie" words so you know I'm not mad at ya.....just want to wake you up and make you see.
H4H, I am glad you got me up to date. I do hope you will get "B" out of the stitch immediately b/c I think you saw for yourself how it can backfire and only make matters much worse.
Puppy.......thanks.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
