"He's just trying to be in control. He doesn't like you having this other life now and you not giving him all the attention."
"But, there are also times when I still can't believe that he would choose OW over his wife and daughter. I need to get my head on straight. Today is kinda hard, though. Not sure why, it just is."
The kiss.. was an effort in control also. I understand why it happened. I am on the fence with what to say about it. Best I can come up with is be careful with that. Allowing him to do it.. gives him a little bit of control in that situation. It confirms you are still waiting on him. I know this from my Playboy days. Its just a little hook on you. It gets you thinking. Temper your thought with he is the one that did the run by slapping. I know you want to have your husband back. I don't want to see you build a wall either. Let him come to you when it is genuine and has a purpose other than making you think.
I dropped in the two quotes at the top because they relate to each other. This silly little game he is playing.. and it is a game.. is him trying to see what he can get away with. Use what you know.. control the flow.. when you want to get off the phone.. do it. You touch him.. only let him touch you when you want it. Play hard to get.. I know you can do it. If there is no chase.. he will loose interest.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
