I have found that being specific about two/three actions (that way he gets to choose which gives him his independence) that WOULD fix it. If he knows a way he can fix it, he most likely will.
I will try this. The problem is that I am not sure how to fix it myself. I just think it is going to take time. He has to be open and honest with me...consistency would also be good. If he is down or if he needs time alone...then just tell me, I can't read his mind. I am obviously not a good mind reader.
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I don't think he would have asked you, or would say you could, if he didn't. If he didn't, he'd say no or nevermind.
I do think he really meant it when he said it a couple of weeks ago. Today it was "you can move in if you want, I mean if you brought your stuff over I wouldn't turn you away. Your name is on the lease I wouldn't really have the right. But I think it would be out of convenience just so you don't have to live with your mom."
He did say he would go back to the dr with me if I wanted. I said I would be ok, he would probably be working and he said he could get off, just to let him know. I thought that was nice of him and I thanked him for it. I may take him up on that.
