He told me that he cares but that is how he deals with it because he can't fix it or do anything to make me feel better.
That is such a typical guy thing, and one of the reasons they don't like to talk. I have found that being specific about two/three actions (that way he gets to choose which gives him his independence) that WOULD fix it. If he knows a way he can fix it, he most likely will.
Originally Posted By: klm
He says I can move in if I want...but I want him to WANT me to move in.
I don't think he would have asked you, or would say you could, if he didn't. If he didn't, he'd say no or nevermind.
Originally Posted By: klm
He said he has nothing to offer me.
And he probably feels that way a lot. Time and space will definitely give him time to figure some things out. But I also think some cheerleading from you would go a long way.
I hope you had a good night.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
