Hey hopeful4her, just checking in, WOW a lot going on
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Detaching and GALing. I have to do it. The hardest to do. I realize if I don't, the odds are stacking up against me. I have to realize that I still have hope for us, and accordingly, do things that would put things a little more in my favor.
I need to do the same, thing, work on myself, its hard, you want to do stuff for your W and think OM wasn't doing this for her, but they don't care about it, my W has already given up on our M, says she gave up several years ago. We have to continue to look our best, be happy when our guts are getting ripped out and hope for the best. I'm getting tired, frustrated, and I can't show it, because it makes me look bad in W eyes
W is moving out and there is nothing I can do but wave goodbye I cannot control her everyone says detach, I say help her pack,
M45 W41 M10 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 Merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 no sex yet ?? hoping !!! let me hope !! WHAMMO - W moving out June 1st - 20 days
