Jay,
I am in a very similiar sitch. Friends with W now. As she realized that I am a friend, we actually meet for dinner together alone. Conversation is on friendship basis. No talk of R. No stress. I don't know if we will get back together but, we certainly increased the chances dramatically. It took almost a year to get to this. This friendship also kept her from pursuing any OM. She still has me.
Continue your process.


Me 54
W 54
S 29
S 27
S 24
M 32
bomb 5/07
MO: 8/07
D 7/09
dating W
W wants back 4/10