Jay, I am in a very similiar sitch. Friends with W now. As she realized that I am a friend, we actually meet for dinner together alone. Conversation is on friendship basis. No talk of R. No stress. I don't know if we will get back together but, we certainly increased the chances dramatically. It took almost a year to get to this. This friendship also kept her from pursuing any OM. She still has me. Continue your process.
Me 54 W 54 S 29 S 27 S 24 M 32 bomb 5/07 MO: 8/07 D 7/09 dating W W wants back 4/10