(((sh))) I know that must have hurt. I agree with what oc said but would add that things with his family may get a little awkward for you. They are family and they may not totally understand the dynamics of what is going on in your sitch. Try to let it go...it is not a good indicator of what is going on with your H.
During your move, you probably will go into survival mode because you will be so busy...it is okay...try to enjoy the moving process...enjoy the distraction. Everything else will still be waiting for you when you get back into life after your move. You can figure out your next step then.
Your friends see that your H has hurt you and want your pain to stop. I am sure they mean well but your H is the father of your children...it is important that you keep as good of relationship as possible with him. Listening to things like that won't really help you keep things positive...regardless of how things end up. Try to remind them of that.
