For example, when he is rude to you on the phone, learn how to hang up the phone.
And for the love of God woman, you have yet to go NC on this Man.
You are still emailing and phoning and leaving messages.
It comes across as needy and desperate.
If he wants his freedom, give it to him.
Give him a chance to miss you.
Let him see what life is like when you are not available anymore.
IF there is an emergency with your Daughter, and I am talking about life threatening illness and being admitted into the hospital, then you may contact him.
Leave him alone.
Work on you.
Let him work on himself.
The post I wrote earlier, I meant every single word.
If he came home today, what would he find?
What does he have to come back to?
And in answer to your question to Jeanette, I don't know why he hasn't Divorced you yet. Maybe he is still thinking about it, maybe he can't afford it, maybe he is too afraid, only he has the answer to that question.
Dar all of these things are just repeats of your twenty somethng other threads. They are all the same. Nothing is different.
I personally find some of your comments to be outrageous, almost to the point of shock value.
Piercing your private parts, discussing a "split" penis, your Cancer, the kid at school who harrassed your Daughter, your insane co-workers, the list goes on and on.
I no longer know what is the truth and what is just a desire for attention.
And I will go one step further, if this is the kind of crap you pulled on your Husband, it answers many questions.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.