You sound great. The weekend sounds like it was really nice all the way around. You did good fixing lunch & cleaning up, good job !! It's probably best you didn't jump her bones, lol. Let her be the one to make those moves.

Going to the gym is a great idea. I like it when H goes. It shows me that he cares about himself, & also about looking good. It also helps clear his head a bit, he doesn't have so much anxiety going on.

What's your new thread going to be called ??

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.